Header Image - Alan C. Fox

Avoid the Investment Road to Ruin

 

Caught in the StormWhen considering an investment, most of us focus on potential profit.  After all, profit is what we’re after.  But if in our quest for profit we ignore potential loss, we have already put one foot squarely on the investment road to Ruin.

This principle applies equally to an investment in people, but let’s look at the financial context first.

Suppose you have $100,000 to invest.  You decide to diversify (generally a good idea) and put $20,000 into each of five stocks.

Four out of your five selections turn out to be excellent. They earn a return of fifteen percent the first year.  This means that on your first $80,000 you are ahead $12,000.  So far, so good.

But your fifth investment, in Disaster, Inc., turns out to be a blunder.  In fact, Disaster loses eighty percent of its value.  That’s a $16,000 loss on your final $20,000 investment.  Ouch!

And double ouch.  On your first four investments you ended up with a profit of $12,000, but on Disaster you lost $16,000.  So your net result is a loss of $4,000, which means that in the first year your $100,000 shrank to $96,000.

If you do just as well, or poorly, the second year you will end up with $92,160.  The same performance for ten consecutive years will leave you with $66,483.

To summarize, if four out of five of your financial investments perform really well but your fifth is Disaster, in ten years you could lose more than one third of your stake.  Even worse, had you earned seven percent each year for ten years on all five of your investments you would have ended up with $196,715, which is almost double your original capital.

This is why, in my business, I live by a simple rule, “Avoid Disasters.”  I focus just as much on avoiding bad investments as I do on finding profitable possibilities.  In the long run, this strategy generates far greater rewards. Of course, I have invested in more than one Disaster myself in the past fifty years, but I’ve learned a lot from my own mistakes.

The same rule applies to people.  One person named Dismal can devastate your life for years.  When I was practicing law one of my first clients called me after their bookkeeper had stolen more than $100,000.  We recovered a minor portion of the money from one bank, and the ex-bookkeeper even began to repay a small amount each month—until she was arrested for stealing from her next employer and thrown into prison for five years.  It took my client one year to pay my bill, and three years to recover from the loss.

trusting-Relationships-peopletoolsBoth in business and in my personal life I want to be surrounded by people who I can trust and who are happy and enthusiastic.  Why should I invest my time, which is more valuable to me than money, in Mr. or Ms. Dismal?  Moods and attitudes are contagious. For that reason I choose to hang out with people who are both positive and trustworthy, and it takes time to earn my trust.  The best and most rewarding relationships I have are those based on consistent and enjoyable experiences.

Let us stroll then, you and I, along the road to riches and rewarding relationships, leaving Dismal and Disaster to totter down the road to Ruin by themselves.

Alan

0 views

Seven Tips on How to Make a Great First Impression

 

smile-FirstImpression-PeopleToolsThe first impression you make endures forever. And if you make a poor first impression you may never have a chance to make another one.

Whether you are dating, applying for a job, or seeing a new potential customer, you can always improve in this area and make not just a good but a great first impression.

Here’s how.

  1. Pay attention.  There is very little I like more than a person who concentrates exclusively on me. Similarly, there is very little I like less than meeting someone who looks over my shoulder at someone or something else. I once saw a singer at a small club peek at her watch during a performance to see how soon she could get off the stage.  Clearly, the audience was not her first priority.  I left when she took her break.
  2. Be Pleasant.  If you appear to be in a bad mood I will assume you are either upset with me or have a sour disposition.  In either case, why should I see or talk to you again?  Remember, the cost of being nice is small.  The cost of being nasty can be huge.
  3. Be Positive.  It’s easy to find fault.  The world is not perfect.  But we all know that.  I want to meet problem solvers, not problem creators.  Problems are easy to find.  Solutions are more difficult to come by. If you want to make a great first impression on me, bring me a solution, not a problem.
  4. Be Agreeable.  The words, “you’re right,” or “I agree with you,” go a long way toward establishing a new and outstanding relationship.  I’m not going to spend much time with someone who always argues with me, even if they’re right.
  5. Be specific.  I like to hear stories with specifics.  We all do.  If I told you that I read a story about a woman who had a problem with an animal, would you ever suspect I was talking about Little Red Riding Hood’s grandmother?
  6. Admit your flaws.  I have never been 100% perfect for even a single day in my life, and people who pretend that they are make me nervous.  At best they are oblivious to their faults.  At worst, they are unable or unwilling to make course corrections.  And if they have to be perfect they will undoubtedly find fault with me in order to prove that they are better than I am. It’s hard to be around someone with an inflated ego. Our flaws are what make us human, and loveable.  The statement, “I often have trouble picking out new clothes,” is a lot more appealing than, “People say I’m the best dressed person they ever met.”
  7. Say thank you for something specific. As you leave your first encounter, you might say, “Thank you for spending this time with me,” or “Thank you for your ideas about my project.”  This will reinforce the great first impression which you have already made, and a display of appreciation is an excellent way to leave a positive lasting impression.

10-10-10-FirstImpression-PeopleToolsSince there is no substitute for getting an impact right the first time, (you can’t go back and do it again), I suggest that you practice your “Great First Impression” technique with a friend.  And your friend can practice making a “Great First Impression” on you.  Each of you will not only learn a lot, but you will also have fun in the process.

It’s never too soon for you to begin creating great first impressions.

Alan

0 views